Hidden Facts: Here’s What You Must Know About Valentine’s Day, Its Customs & Traditions | Celebrate It Carefully!

By Frank Kamuntu

Every year on February 14, millions of people around the world celebrate Valentine’s Day, an occasion dedicated to expressing love, friendship and admiration. From romantic dinners and handwritten cards to thoughtful gifts shared among friends and family, the day has grown into one of the most widely recognised celebrations of affection across cultures.

Valentine’s Day takes its name from Saint Valentine, a Catholic priest believed to have lived in Rome during the third century. Historical accounts and legends suggest that during this period, Emperor Claudius II imposed strict rules on Christians and banned Roman soldiers from marrying, believing single men made better warriors.

According to tradition, Valentine defied the emperor’s decree by secretly performing Christian marriage ceremonies for soldiers. His actions earned him a reputation as a defender of love and commitment. Eventually discovered, Valentine was imprisoned. Legends say that while in jail he cared for fellow prisoners and even restored sight to his jailor’s blind daughter. Before his execution on February 14 in the year 270, he is believed to have sent her a farewell message signed “from your Valentine,” a phrase still associated with the holiday today.

More than two centuries later, February 14 was officially declared Saint Valentine’s Day as the Christian Church sought to replace pagan festivals held during the same period. Over time, the day evolved beyond its religious origins.

In the Middle Ages, poet Geoffrey Chaucer helped link the celebration with romantic love, inspiring traditions of courtly affection and poetic expression. Across Europe, gatherings celebrating love reportedly included poetry readings and playful social customs that strengthened Valentine’s association with romance.

The exchange of love messages gradually developed into the tradition of Valentine’s Day cards. Early cards were handmade and decorated with sentimental verses, lace and ribbons. Symbols such as hearts, flowers and Cupid became enduring representations of love — imagery still widely used today.

Today, Valentine’s Day is observed in many countries, though traditions vary. While often associated with romantic couples, the holiday has expanded to include expressions of appreciation among friends, relatives and even children.

Common celebrations include exchanging cards, chocolates and flowers — especially red roses, which symbolise deep affection. Couples frequently mark the day with special dinners, picnics or home-cooked meals, while restaurants and hotels offer themed experiences designed to create memorable moments.

For many, February 14 also serves as a popular day for marriage proposals, with some choosing elaborate and creative ways to declare their commitment.

Despite changing customs and cultural differences, the spirit of Valentine’s Day remains consistent: celebrating human connection. Whether through romance, friendship or simple acts of kindness, the holiday continues to remind people worldwide of the enduring importance of love.